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4 Ways to Tell You Have Met The One!
4 min readOct 15, 2020
Here are the four things that must be present in order to know if you are with the right person or not. It is not hard to spot the wrong person, but it can be hard to spot the right one, especially when you have no idea what a healthy relationship should look like.
- YOU SHARE THE SAME VALUES AND BELIEFS
Your values are what you believe are essential. What do you think is necessary for your day to day life? How do you live your life?
- Do you always tip 20% to your waitress, or do you believe 10% is OK?
- Do you think women should be home raising children and not have a career?
- Do you believe eating dinner at 6:00 pm with your family is essential, and you will do anything to make that happen?
- Do you believe you as a couple should shut down technology at night to connect, and are these things a priority for you?
- How do you want to live your life as a couple?
- Do you want to live in the city, or do you want to live in the country?
- Are you a spiritual or religious person? How do you handle stress, and how do you take care of yourself?
- Understand that who you are is what you will attract. If you are coming from lack and fear, you will settle for what is around vs…