When to stay or leave? Here is how you know!

You have been in this relationship for either for a little while or many years. You are starting to see patterns with the person you loved or might even still love.

You are googling Narcissistic Personality Disorder and have realized that everything you are seeing is matching what you have been dealing with within your relationship.

Now you are faced with the dilemma of whether you should end your relationship or if you should try harder to make the relationship work.

The reality everyone must face, regardless if your partner has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or not is that a relationship requires two people. Two people trying and taking responsibility for themselves is essential for any relationship to work.

So often I hear one partner taking on all the responsibility in the relationship. They believe they have control over whether their relationship works or fails, but the truth is they do not.

The first thing you are starting to learn is that all narcissists need control. If they can control how others see them then they can ensure that their biggest fear will not become a reality.

They fear someone seeing them for who they are and exposing them or perhaps leaving them. Since these fears are so strong and because they are extremely…