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Why You Keep Attracting Relationships That Don’t Last
It is a frustrating experience to keep attracting relationships that never seem to last. You might be wondering what’s wrong with you or if you’ll ever find someone who will stay. The good news is that you’re not alone. Many people struggle with this issue, and there are reasons why it keeps happening.
Let’s explore some of the common reasons why you might be attracting relationships that don’t last and offer some tips on how to break the cycle.
YOU’RE NOT CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT
If you’re not clear on what you want in a relationship, it’s easy to end up in relationships that don’t align with your goals and values. It’s important to take some time to reflect on what you want in a relationship and what you’re looking for in a partner. What are your deal-breakers? What are your non-negotiables? What are your values and beliefs? Once you have a clear understanding of what you want, you’ll be better equipped to recognize when a relationship isn’t right for you and to avoid investing too much time and energy in something that won’t work out.
YOU ARE SETTLING
Sometimes we settle for less than we deserve because we’re afraid of being alone or we don’t think we can find someone better. This can lead to relationships that aren’t fulfilling and don’t last. It’s…